07-09-2021, 09:32 AM
(07-08-2021, 07:21 PM)ken-do-nim Wrote: On my end, location is tricky. My son is autistic, and will be in group homes for the remainder of his life. I will always stay nearby to him. To move him out of Massachusetts will require the consent of his mother as well. The most I could do for a cheap retirement is if he goes into a group home in Western Mass, then I could move to southern Vermont. You can still get a 4 bedroom in the Brattleboro area for under $250k. I don't know how much say I get on where he goes.The bucket list is important. Cliff diving is tougher when you are 65 Seriously though I am glad I got a few things checked off the list. I always wanted to fly fish remote Alaskan waters so the moose could watch me land big King Salmon. It was physically hard when I did it and I doubt I could do it only five years later.
Once my girlfriend and I no longer have kids in high school, I'm hoping to take 3 major vacations a year and get that bucket list attended to.